Calling It Out: Real Talk for Real Co-Parents

Sharing Celebrations: Planning for Holidays (Part 2)

Episode Summary

Discover the magic of stress-free celebrations in this week's episode of "Positively Inspired CoParenting." Imagine every special occasion being filled with harmony and joy, despite the changes in your family dynamics. We dive into creating memorable celebrations through thoughtful planning and respectful co-parenting. Learn how small, intentional actions can transform special days into cherished memories for your children. Hear a heartwarming story of a perfectly planned birthday party that brought smiles and strengthened bonds. Discover the power of collaboration and communication, showing your children that unity and love are possible, even in separate households. Tune in and find out how to make every celebration a testament to your commitment to your children’s happiness. Make sure you join us next week as we explore "Effective Communication Tools for CoParents." Let's create wonderful memories together!

Episode Notes

Recommended Books:

 

  1. The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce by Elizabeth Thayer and Jeffrey Zimmerman (Soft Cover)

This book provides practical advice on managing the challenges that come with co-parenting after a difficult divorce. Thayer and Zimmerman emphasize the importance of communication and cooperation, using mindfulness to manage emotions and stay present in interactions with your co-parent and children. The guide offers strategies for letting go of past conflicts and focusing on building a supportive co-parenting relationship, which is crucial during special occasions.

  1. Joint Custody with a Jerk: Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex- A Hands-on, Practical Guide to Communicating with a Difficult Ex-Spouse by Julie A. Ross and Judy Corcoran (Soft Cover) (eBook)

Ross and Corcoran delve into the complexities of dealing with a challenging co-parenting partner. They provide insights into how mindfulness can be a powerful tool for managing personal reactions and maintaining a calm demeanor, even when faced with provocation. The book offers practical tips on disengaging from conflict and focusing on the needs of the children, which is particularly valuable during special events and celebrations.

  1. Positively Inspired Mindfulness Journal: A Year of Awareness‘ by Sai Gonzalez (Soft Cover) is your guide to a tranquil self-discovery journey. Tailored for navigating life’s ups and downs, it offers daily reflective prompts against the changing seasons, with each month highlighted by a thought-provoking quote. Created by an expert mindfulness coach, the journal encourages a consistent yet flexible practice of reflection, gratitude, and presence. Transition messages for each season enhance your personal growth narrative, fostering an embrace of change and progress. This journal, culminating in a message of hope and gratitude, serves as a beacon for mindful living, guiding you towards a conscious, fulfilling existence. It’s an invaluable companion for anyone seeking to cultivate awareness and joy, encouraging transformation from within.

Using These Resources to Manage Anger and Cultivate Emotional Well-being: These books are invaluable resources for co-parents seeking to improve their emotional management and mindfulness practices. By applying the strategies discussed, readers can learn to manage their anger, remain calm during stressful interactions, and foster a more cooperative and peaceful co-parenting environment. These practices not only benefit the co-parents but also create a more stable and nurturing environment for the children, especially during important celebrations. Using these books as guides, co-parents can work towards transforming challenges into opportunities for personal growth and better family dynamics.